
Ep. 314 – The Peace of Mind Pathway – Step 1 – Your Roadmap
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In this Episode of the Secure Your Retirement Podcast, Radon and Murs discuss the foundational first step in their three-part Peace of Mind Pathway: The Peace of Mind Roadmap. This step is all about creating a personalized retirement roadmap to help you clearly define where you are, where you want to go, and what your journey through retirement will look like. Through real examples and a GPS-style analogy, they break down the importance of clarity and confidence when beginning the retirement planning process. The roadmap goes far beyond investments—it covers your retirement goals, Retirement income strategy, tax planning, estate planning, and more.
Listen in to learn about how building a retirement-focused financial plan can reduce stress, reveal opportunities, and help you retire comfortably. You’ll hear how an introductory meeting evolves into a comprehensive, personalized strategy session that gives you direction and peace of mind. With topics ranging from Roth conversions in retirement to bucket strategy retirement, this episode is perfect for anyone who’s ready to take their first step toward a secure your retirement future.
In this episode, find out:
· Why the Peace of Mind Roadmap is critical to financial planning for retirement
· How your personalized GPS for retirement guides your unique journey
· The role of planning meetings and how they evolve into strategy sessions
· How to evaluate your retirement destination and adjust along the way
· The impact of Roth conversions, healthcare costs, and charitable giving on your plan
Tweetable Quotes:
“Your retirement plan should function like a GPS—clear, adaptable, and designed around your unique destination.” – Radon Stancil
“A well-crafted roadmap gives you more than numbers—it gives you the confidence to enjoy your retirement journey.” – Murs Tariq
Resources:
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Here’s the full transcript:
Welcome to Secure Your Retirement podcast. We are very happy to talk with you today
and kind of go through a topic that is really, I think, very special to myself and
MERS, because it’s really helped us to clarify two individuals that are looking at
trying to figure out retirement in a nice clear, concise way. And we call it the peace of mind pathway. Now, but what we’re going to do
is over the next three episodes, this one of two more episodes, we’re going to
take you through the components of this. But I want to kind of set it up first so you
can understand what we’re trying to create from a word picture so that it comes to
you and you go, “Okay, I understand why they’re calling it this.” Because quite
honestly, I’ve been doing this for 25 years. You get into this retirement
conversation and there’s so many things that have to get looked at and it’s
overwhelming. And we really wanted to try to break things down in such a way
that people could understand it. I will tell you this just as a side note, we feel
it’s so special and in understanding this and helping people have peace of mind
because that’s the result we’ve seen that right now, Merce and I are in the final
editing phase of a book that we have written all about the pathway.
It’s explaining it from A to Z. So, we kind of wanted to do this as a precursor.
We’ve been working so hard on the book. We thought, “Hey, why not do this in the
podcast format so that you can visualize?” So, if you’re listening to this and you
are a client, don’t worry about that. Now you’re going to get a clear picture of
how we’re explaining things. And if you are not a client, then you might say,
“Well, this all makes sense.” So, let’s get the picture. a pathway. So, imagine if
you would a roadway, a pathway, might think of like one of those little curvy paths
going through the woods. And in the pathway, I have in my mind when you’re thinking
about retirement is you can look down, there’s lots of trees, you look down the
pathway and there’s a curve. And what that means is you don’t know what’s on that
part of the pathway. You can only see, but so far. And then you make the turn and
you go, oh, I see where I’m headed. And maybe you see something else along that.
And then there’s a turn another way. And you go, well, where are we headed to now?
And that is kind of how we envision this idea of getting ready for and living
through retirement is this pathway that we’re going on. But we’re hitting things,
we’re getting to a point where we go, I don’t know the answer to this, because
there are so many different things, so many different elements. I mean, it’s not just
investments. That’s what we’ve been trying to tell people now for a number of years.
Beause go back 25 years ago, I was all investments. Now, Merce and I together for
13 of those years have really worked to say it’s more than investments. And today
it’s building a retirement focused financial plan. It’s dealing with an income plan.
It’s dealing with investments. It’s dealing with taxes. It’s dealing with all the
different elements around social security and health care and estate planning.
It’s so many different moving parts there that we really wanted to say, how do we
get down that pathway? And it is not a come in and 15 minutes later, we’ve got
this figured out. So, we’re going to take you through basically building a roadmap,
getting a guide, if you would, to say, how do I get down the pathway and then how
do I implement that? And then how do I nurture it? So, we can’t do all this in
one podcast. All right. So, hope, I hope you understand the picture and you,
you understand why we’ve called it the peace of mind pathway. And then we’re going
to now break down some of those different elements. So, the first thing is we got
to get some guidance how to get down the pathway. Maybe there’s multiple, I don’t
know that you that you come down and there’s a why in the pathway and I could go
this way or I could go this way. How do I know which way to go? How do I make
a decision? So, Merce, if you kind of want to now take a setup and let’s just
deal with this first part of it, how do I get a guide? What do we call it? What
does it look like so that we can start trying to get down this pathway? Yeah, so
the pathway itself has three major components that Raiden kind of started to allude
- And what we’re talking about today in today’s episode is we’re focusing on
component number one part number one, which is the peace of mind roadmap component
number two and three are going to come in a in following episodes number two is
implementation we’re going to go deep dive on that and then the third is peace of
mind nurture all three of these together combined create this pathway that we’re
talking about as far as how we make this successful, this idea of retirement. So
today’s focus, again, we’re building that roadmap. And what does that really look
like? Well, the roadmap starts from really just getting to know who you are and
what you’re looking for and what your goals are. And so, a lot of times we have,
you know, on this podcast, we’ll have people that are interested and have been
listening to us for years at this point. The podcast started back in 2020. It’s
hard to even believe that as we sit here in 2025 and you know people have been
listening to us for a while. Eventually they get comfortable enough with us. They
feel like they know us, and they will set an appointment, or they watch us on
YouTube or they come to one of our educational events or some of their friends or
clients and they get referred over to us. So, there’s a handful of avenues as to
where someone comes into our fold, but once they come into our fold and become
wanting to understand who we are, how we take care of our clients and what is it
we actually do here, it all starts with that roadmap. So, it starts with this idea
of an introduction type of meeting, very, I would say laid back, but serious at the
same time, you’re here for a reason and we do a very specific job, which is help
you try to figure out what retirement is going to look like for you. So, in that
introductory meeting, we’re trying to get to know you. In most cases, we’ve asked
you to fill out a document that helps us understand some of your financials,
understand some of your goals, understand what you’ve done thus far to prepare for
retirement. We call that our confidential financial snapshot. And there’s a bunch of
yes and no questions on there. There’s a bunch of open-ended questions on there.
It’s really, when I say a bunch, it’s a two page, uh, two-page document. So still
we keep it simple and high level, but that gives us a nice basis of conversation
to understand every little thing, we can about you. And that 30 to 45 minutes
meeting, we’re asking questions to get clarification. You’re asking questions to
understand us more and more as far as our general philosophy, how do we operate?
Where do we hold money at when it comes to the investing side? What does a
financial plan look like? And so, in that meeting, there’s clarity that’s immediately
starting to happen. There’s clarity around what a relationship with us looks like.
What is it we actually do here from the aspect of building out a
what is that? And, you know, at the end of this visit, again,
it’s 30 to 45 minutes, on both sides of the table, we have to make a decision of,
“Hey, we’ve spent some time together. We kind of know each other to a good degree
at this point.” And we both have to ask each other, “Do we think that we are on
path to being a good fit for each other?” Not making a decision on becoming a
client yet, but do we think we’re on the right path to being a good fit for each
other? So, on our side, as the advisor, we’re saying, hey, do we think we can truly
add value to what this person in front of me is looking for? On your side, you
kind of have to say, hey, do I like who I’m talking to, right? Uh, our personal
personality is very important, and comfort is very important in these scenarios and
also trust. So am I getting that feeling, that good feeling of, “This is
pretty cool. Do I like the strategies? Do I like the philosophy?” If so, we both
agree there. Then we go on to a following visit, which is way more focused,
really specialized, really personalized. To you, we call that our personalized planning
meeting. So, I just took you through on a high level, the personalized introduction
meeting, which is really step one in that roadmap building process. And then there’s
some things that happen in between, and then we go to this follow -up visit, which
we call the personalized planning meeting. So, Radon, you want to kind of walk
through that? Well, before I do, I kind of want to use another illustration that we
like to talk about. And I think this kind of helps you visualize what we’re trying
to do. And so, this roadmap, I mean, everybody, you know, today, I mean, if you
probably remember actually having a map. But today, very few of us actually have a
physical map. A lot of times we use a GPS.
And most of us understand the concept of a GPS. I put in where I want to go,
and I know where I’m at today. So, I have my starting point, I know where I’m at
today, and I got my ending point of where I’m trying to get to. But within that
GPS, I’m able to make some decisions because I’m in control of where and how I’m
going to go down this journey that I’m headed on. I can say things like avoid
highways. I could tell it to only go on the back roads. I could tell it that I
want to make a stop or two on the way. So, I could put that into the system. The
nice thing about a GPS system is if I do put in my destination and I start on my
journey, the cool part about the GPS is that it will actually reroute me if there’s
something along the way that it sees, it’s going to bring that up. And it’s going
to tell me, Hey, there’s a problem there. So, the way we, the way we feel about it
is, is that we’re kind of like the retirement pathway, if you want to call it, GPS
got our team. We are the GPS, right? So, you tell us,
that’s that meeting that, uh, Merce, which is talking about, we’re getting a very,
very clear picture as to where you’re at right now. We also want to know where you
want to go. And those are different things. Somebody might say, look, I have
traveled vastly in my work years. I don’t want to travel anywhere anymore.
Here’s what I want to do. I want another home. I’d like that to be at the beach.
I want it to be at the mountains, whatever that might be. And here’s where I want
to live out. That’s a whole different destination than somebody who comes up and
says, I was so busy working. Um, I never got to go anywhere. And so, we have a,
we have some significant, um, vacations that we want to do. We want to explore.
That’s a whole different path. Uh, we’ve had folks that have come in and we think
about this all the time where they come in and they said, I just want to, I want
to travel on an RV whole different path than the others. So, we are the GPS.
We’re the team that says, okay, we are here. You want to get here. How do we get
there? And what stops do you want along the way? We also as a team have the
mechanisms in place that if we see things, we bring it to your attention and we do
reroute. So, I wanted you to get that picture, right? So, so meeting number one is
clearly understanding exactly where you are right now and where you’d like to go.
And that’s a, you might change your mind, by the way, where you want to go. So
now we know that the team goes to work, and they start building the routing,
the routing. They start looking and saying, hey, we want, here’s where we want to
- How do we, are we going to be able to get there? I guess that’s firstly the
really big question is, how do I know that I can actually get there? So, when you
come back in on the second visit, you’re going to sit down with at least two
certified financial planners and they’re going to walk you through and say, we have
done a very detailed analysis of what you’ve told us, and you can or cannot reach
your destination based on all the parameters that you gave us. And so, if it is a
can, well, then it’s easy and we just kind of, you get the confidence to know when
you can make it. And then inevitably in that meeting, a lot of times people go,
“Well, hey, what if I take another path?” Right? So, we might go through that and
they go, “Wow, I’m going to make it to the end of retirement and have tons of
money left over. What if I travel a little bit more? What if I did go ahead and
do that second home?” So, we adjust right on the fly. We can actually adjust now
because we have all the parameters in. We can adjust and say, wait a minute,
absolutely you can do that. What if the person though comes in and based on all
the things they told us, when we look at it, we say, you can get to the end, but
it’s a little tight. So, then what we can say is, what are some adjustments that we
can do? And maybe that adjustment is, you work two more years. Maybe that adjustment
is, you spend a little bit less. Maybe that adjustment is, you go ahead and retire
from the stressful job that you’re in right now and you do some part -time
consulting that all of those is you’re watching your GPS your retirement piece
of mind retirement team working that GPS making sure that it’s aligned and now this
is what I love out of this particular visit it is the time where people have the
most piece of mind because they get to see it and they go wow I actually have a
plan. I actually have direction. I can see the path. I know I now can make it or
I know what I need to do to make it. And that is just one of my favorite
appointments that when we get together and they see how this is all come together,
I get excited about that one because I know that one’s going to be such an eye
-opener. I’ve done so many of them for the last 20 years that I just have seen at
every time the stress goes down, the peace of mind comes into play. So now we’ve
got this
thing built, right? And we kind of got it, but we’ve got one more step that we
want to do still in this roadmap area. And that’s really when we come back for a
third visit. And at this point, we’re really kind of starting to talk a little bit
about some of the strategies that we would need in order to do it. So, if you want
to walk through kind of how that looks, because this is this is the one step prior
to the next one, which is our implementation. Yeah, so we’ve got, we’ve had our
introduction meeting at this point. Raiden just walked you through a bit of that
planning meeting, kind of getting, putting it on on screen, understanding, here’s
where we are, here’s where we’re going, does it work out? Do we need to make
adjustments? And when we’re all on board with that, then we talk, well, how do we
actually, have strategy around this to make this plan work. It’s kind of like, if we
don’t know where we’re going to go, so say you’re getting in the car, you’re packing
for a trip, but you haven’t decided where you’re going yet, how do you pack? You
put a little bit of everything in the car and it may or may not make sense, but
you got a bunch of stuff, right? If we know where we’re going, then we can pack
accordingly, for it. That’s really what strategy ends up being is if we know where
we’re going, we know where what our goals are, we know when we want to retire, we
know it’s possible. Now we can build a thorough strategy around it. And the strategy
is all involved in a handful of elements around your investment strategy.
That is a big piece of it, but it’s not the only piece of it. So, on the
investment strategy, if you’ve been listening to us, we talk heavily about this
concept of It’s, we’re not going to go into it today, but it’s really having a
balance of growth assets and safe assets and putting those two together. It controls
risk. It also, it also controls our ability as far as our withdrawal strategies,
which is the next piece that comes together is, hey, we’re going to need to start
pulling this money. At some point when we do retire, where are we going to pull it
from? Uh, and so that the withdrawal strategy goes hand in hand with our investment
strategy, which then you build up all these different types of assets, right? All
these different things that we’re packing in the car are all going to have different
taxation. So, we start to think through your tax strategy for what the year is going
to look like when it’s taxation, but also long -term tax strategy as far as what
are our goals for taxation? Do we want to do Roth conversions? Do we want to leave
a tax -free legacy behind and having those deeper conversations. We also want to make
sure, where we’re at from a healthcare perspective. When we start having those
conversations around if we’re retiring early, let’s make sure we think through the
pros and cons of that when it comes to healthcare, because you don’t qualify for
Medicare until 65. When you do hit 65, you have to know exactly what we’re doing with
Medicare. On that point, by the way, we have a specialist in office that those are
the only conversations he’s having is all around medical, pre -Medicare and post
-Medicare to kind of narrow all that down for our clients. And then giving
strategies, when it comes to charitable giving and how we want to do that to take
advantage of tax law, definitely, if you’re in the mindset of giving, give,
but let’s do it in the right way so that everyone benefits from it. So that’s just
a handful of things that happen in that strategy meeting. We start talking about
that. And so by the end of this process here of designing this roadmap, we’ve got
a really good concept. And hopefully we’ve got a really good direction as far as
can I do what I have been saving forever to do, which is enjoy this element of a
comfortable, exciting, fun retirement and whatever that means to you. All right.
Well, we hope this has at least given you this idea as you can conceptually see
what it kind of looks like to go down this idea of being confident while you plan
for and live in retirement. We always are open if you want to ever have a
conversation with us. It’s very easy to do so. You can go to our website, which is
Pomwealth.net, and you’re able to
schedule a phone call with us. We’ll answer any questions that you might have and
walk you through this process more personalized for you. As we said in the outset,
in our next episode, we’re going to talk about now, how do we implement? So, we built
this whole thing out. We have a whole roadmap right now. We’ve looked at it from
the goals. We’ve looked at it from the, does it work? We’ve now looked at some
strategies around how to make it all work. And so now it kind of comes down to,
well then, if I want to implement, what does that look like? So, in the next
episode, we’re going to go all through implementation.